Divorce Mediation Successes

Definition

Divorce:

Noun 1. The dissolution of a marriage by law, or in primitive societies, by established custom.

Noun 2. A complete or radical separation of things closely connected. In this sense, also called "divorcement".

Verb 1. To dissolve the marriage bond between.

Verb 2. To shed (one's spouse) by legal divorce.

Verb 3. To separate or remove; disunite.

Verb 4. To obtain a divorce.

Jean has helped many couples dissolve their marriages through divorce mediation. This is the fastest, most thorough and satisfying method of getting divorce agreements. This includes all aspects of what needs to be handled before both parties can say they are "done," "happy," and can move on. Divorce mediation is much less costly than going through lawyers and paying them by the hour, and creates much less in the way of hard feelings. The techniques of mediation, when applied to divorce, can result in a speedy and mutually agreeable close to what has often been a bitter and unpleasant process, full of blame, fault-finding and accusation.

WIFE: "When I first learned of Jean, I was a little bit leery. My soon to be ex-husband and I had been playing this stupid game called divorce, and so my life was well you could say-a little SNARLY! It seemed as if every being I met was somehow a terminal I should fight somehow. So I talked to Jean. She is very sane. I liked this (I had been dealing with an attorney for too long!) I felt a little bit of hope after hearing she could really help us resolve this divorce somehow (we have been 'trying' to for almost 2 years!) With a little more spring in my step, I decided to give her mediation services a try. AND MAN I AM GLAD WE DID! It was tough going through and confronting it all-ups and downs, scowls, smiles and snarls, but we made it through to the end (poor Jean!)

If all attorneys were like this, the world would be a much saner place. My personal gains have resulted in less body pains and feeling a lot calmer.

Jean did something--I don't know what--something pretty big. It got rid of some huge block coming from somewhere (probably the block between my ex and I) You know, I went over to his house tonight, and I didn't have this 'steamroller, I hate you' attitude- it was pretty much gone. My kids even seemed happier.

Anyways--how do you thank someone for having the guts to take on cycles like this? Thank You, Jean. There needs to be more of you. Coming through to the other side is very refreshing. I do not wish divorce on my worst enemy!

I know it is possible to at least communicate civilly to my soon to be ex, and I even look forward (only a little bit) to discussing the children with him. Before, I held back, or snarled.

Whether we like it or not, we are all linked together. It takes someone pretty darn special and high level to tackle our situation, and resolve it. I think Jean should rename her business: 'Magical Mediation' (It can pull rabbits out of hats!)

Thank you so much!"

Ka.K.

HUSBAND: "I've just finished using Jean to mediate a divorce between my wife and me. A divorce that had been going on for close to two years and was getting uglier by the day. To be sure, it was a nuclear war with each side poised with their finger on the button ready to annihilate the other.

It was tough coming to agreement on some pretty hot subjects, but with Jean's help, cool resolve and determination to see us through, we made it. The attorneys we were using prior was like adding gasoline to the fire, of course all in the name of 'protecting our interests'. Jean on the other hand would keep us moving along, truly with our best interests in mind.

In summary, not only did the divorce get resolved in minimally one-twelfth the time, but without the animosity normally associated with it.

My wife and I can actually discuss things and work them out. Mind you we may still disagree on some things, but we're not gouging each other's eyes out over it.

Thanks Jean!"

Ke.K.

HUSBAND: "I would like to thank Jean for hanging in there and helping my ex wife and I get agreements. I feel the agreements we made will help us handle any situation that comes up in a sane way. Our children will greatly benefit from the agreements made today.

Thanks Jean for your help!"

J.V.

HUSBAND: "It was a learning experience. Helped to clear up some issues, helped guide us thru important steps to divorce and have a third person to listen and not take sides or have personal opinions."

P.V.

WIFE: "Love you Jean Brasel! This mediation is the most successful experience I have had to date with my ex husband. My former spouse and I agreed on several issues concerning our children, which we had not been able to agree on before. Jean kept things going in some very rough moments. Without her, I would have been able to accomplish nothing."

M.F.

HUSBAND: "The mediation was different and a divorce is always a difficult situation. We were able as a group to come to agreement. We agreed on a revised holiday and visitation schedule that was mutually beneficial.

I appreciate all of Jean's work. This was a great process through challenging times."

D.F.

WIFE: "Thank you Jean. I don't know how we would have done it without you! We both got what we wanted resolved, in a relatively painless way."

J.L.

HUSBAND: "And now we move forward at last. Done deal!"

C.L.

HUSBAND: "Through Jean's mediation, we got through an emotionally laden process that is usually a traumatic experience to a win in only a few hours. We are already in better communication. The kids are doing well, and we are both looking forward to our new futures. Thank you Jean!"

D.S.

HUSBAND: "Jean did a truly wonderful job at our divorce mediation. She turned what would have likely been months of negotiation and acrimony into a few phone calls. And the best part is that my ex and I are once again great friends! We recovered the high affinity that we always had in our marriage, and which I didn't want to lose even though we would not be continuing our relationship as spouses. Thanks for your great help Jean!"

M.S.

WIFE: "We would not have done this without Jean's guidance and patience! She is a special person."

A.R.

HUSBAND: "It was a great way to wrap things up regarding a very delicate and intense issue that had such an impact on my life and on my wife's life."

J.R.

WIFE: "I feel like we made progress regarding communication so that we can remain friends and be decent with one another. I'm glad my husband was willing to be in agreement with these points and help me 'Get my feet on the ground.' I feel a lot better than when I came in here today."

E.H.

HUSBAND: "We reached agreements, which is good."

J.H.

WIFE: "I have agreements with my husband that are going to be kept from now on, and that is making me feel much better. I also got this acknowledgment from him that I was looking for. I waited 5 years to hear this and it feels really good."

S.M.

HUSBAND: "I came into this mediation very apprehensive, thinking it was going to be just another fight. I feel that the situation has been resolved with points finalized, with a lot of clarity. I feel the confusion is going and it is possible to go on and have a good life."

R.M.

WIFE: "I have a great deal of relief on finally getting an end to a very long 4-year cycle."

L.C.

HUSBAND: "I wanted to have a very long nightmare end. I'm hoping this is the beginning."

A.C.

WIFE: "I got a sense of relief for bringing this protracted part of my life to a close. I am very thankful to Jean for her efforts and relieved that it's over."

T.A.

HUSBAND: "This was a difficult process, but now I may finally get some peace in this matter. Having a third person helped to move the process forward where it may not have before. I hope the future will be better than the past."

L.A.

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